What a week! I am very fortunate to have a few wonderful men in my life. My Darling, my Dad, my Father-in-law, and Grandad. Grandad is actually my Darlings Maternal Grandfather, however, is also regularly called my 'other' boyfriend. He really is the most divine, loving, thoughtful man. Grandad and I are very close. It is not uncommon for me to pick up the phone to hear Grandad on the other end, just wanting a friendly voice to share his sadness. Grandad lost his 'girlfriend' of nearly sixty years, in 2003, and has been longing for Grandma ever since. They had a long and happy marriage. Grandad said it was because he always treated Grandma the way he did when they were 16.
Last Sunday morning Grandad had a fall and wasn't found for quite a few hours. We received a phone call about 5pm to say Grandad had been taken to the hospital and was not well. After a few more phone calls we left for Sydney at 2.30am Monday morning. Grandad has pneumonia and had a major stroke, which has left him unable to move his left side, he has very limited speech and is now being tube fed. He sleeps most of the time, then has the occassional moment of clarity.
Grandad has always been a vibrant, charming, active man. Even at the ripe old age of 92, he was still riding his exercise bike for 45klms per day. He is amazing.
This week has been a very emotional one. I thought I would share our Grandads' story with you in the hope that you will join me in praying for a peaceful outcome for a beautiful man.
Remember to be kinder than necessary, as we are all fighting some kind of battle. Kim x x x
Kim....my thoughts are with you. After speaking with your man I can just guess how wonderful his Grandad is!!! Hope he recovers and is back with you all soon. Jan
Posted by: Jan Knight | March 06, 2009 at 02:43 PM
Hugs & prayers for you & your Grandad. My mother always called my Dad her 'boyfriend' & they were married for 63 years. Your Grandad is a lucky man to have those who love him close by his side. Best wishes.
Posted by: Sandra Paschkow | February 12, 2009 at 04:10 PM
Oh, I deeply hope your Granddad is getting well soon! I keep you and him in my thoughts! It is so great to have someone that special in your life - don't forget to tell him you love him...and of course your hubby, too...
Hugs, Julia
Posted by: Julia | February 10, 2009 at 10:09 PM
Sending along my prayers for a gentle and quick recovery to obviously a much loved man. He sounds so precious and what a blessing to have him in your life. Be strong....God is Big!!!
Margi
Posted by: Margi | February 10, 2009 at 03:10 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time....wishing the best for Grandad.
Posted by: Yvonne | February 10, 2009 at 12:51 PM
Hugs from me - to all of you - and wishing for a peaceful outcome for your dear Grandfather!
Posted by: Hanne | February 10, 2009 at 06:16 AM
I hope your grand dad will recover soon. And I hope everyone lives after the thought of being kind to eachother. An extra hug, a kind word and a smile.
Posted by: May Britt | February 10, 2009 at 03:16 AM
Je pense à vous et à votre "gentleman" très fort ... toutes mes pensées vous accompagnent
Posted by: Catherine Quillé | February 09, 2009 at 08:33 PM
Ohhh Kim I had tears reading this..I lost my grand-dad 15 years ago at the age of 70 and it was such a shock. I just never ever thought he would have a stroke and not be with me...he was a best buddy and I spent a lot of school holidays at the beach with him, fishing, crabbing. I am feeling your pain...biggest hugs
Khris
Posted by: Khris | February 09, 2009 at 07:21 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family at this time . He sounds like a lovely "gentleman" in every sense of the word .
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Posted by: clare bower | February 09, 2009 at 02:23 PM
Hi. I hope your Grandad are getting well soon. I cross my fingers and promice to be kind. He seems to be a great man. Hugs ;-)
Posted by: Laila | February 09, 2009 at 07:47 AM
Prayers being ligted up for you and your precious Grandad. (((Hugs)))
Posted by: Linda | February 09, 2009 at 03:34 AM